Questions for the Queer
January 30th, 2009Do you think you are simply born gay or it’s a preference? is it for life or on and off?
My opinion is I think it’s a little between both. You are born with particular preference, and your experiences growing older affect you preference down the future. So while as I prefer and am pretty much sure will always enjoy the body of a woman, I can always see a fantasy of doing something with a dude somewhere mixed in. If you lived in a city full of nothing but asian, maybe that’s what you’ll be more comfortable with when you leave said city, and only be attracted to asian girls. I have a asian room mate who lived with a lot of latinos, and she said when she went to college, she was only attracted to latins, latin heat she called it. But now shes dating someone who isn’t even close to latin. Could the same be with a man who grew up with a lot of gay friends, or just super saturated in that life style, just assume thats what he wants but change his mind later and go back to it again? Would you call that experimenting or that his preference changed for a short period?
I also noticed some of you have FLGs and FLs simply cuz the FJ doesn’t has as big of selection (you have my condolences), so do you simply ignore the Vagina ? lips? Or does it make you slightly curious what it’d be like to be with a woman? What are your thoughts on this?
Last, have you ever, just for the hell of it, even though you are gay, had Sex ? with a chick. Either just to be fuck buddies, or were drunk one night, or what not? Did it feel wrong, great, or had no effect, you two were just horney?
Again, I wouldn’t call myself gay, but I told my g/f once, I’d sooner go down on a dude than kiss him (kissing for some reason is more intimate to me).
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