May have reached my 16k orgasm by now but I’m stll old 15K.
Have not offered much for a while.
Safety first.
1. Always use alcohol to clean your utensils.
2. Use lots of Lube ? (and some water or spit) so you don’t hurt yourself.
3. Avoid leakage so outside forces may not hurt you.
To keep things neat or even as a warming accessory, may I suggest the purchase of rubber gloves, ‘industrial style’, which are much thicker than dishwashing gloves and 100 times more durable. They might cost you
$5 US or less in a Dollar store. They are usually black on the outside and the finger/palm area may be roughed up for grippage. The inside is usually orange, very smooth and not bad to the touch senses. The cuff may extend a foot above the the fingers towards the elbow. The longer the cuff, the better. They come in various hand sizes.
Put the FL inside the soft surface narrow end first.
Manual flying will keep losses from the small end of FL off the floor, furniture or clothing. Fingers stuffed inside out are an option. Middle finger stuffed inside FL allows small vibrator ? egg into inner portion of FL. Larger vibrators can be attached to the outside of the glove. Multiple vibrators can be attached using Velcro or Duct tape or rubber bands.
With Lube ? inside, you can warm it with a heating pad or on a hot air register. If the sleeve is long enough you can rubber band that end for cleanliness purposes.
Another way to use the glove is to scissor off the tip of the finger that may or may not be the middle finger. If you can’t fit your member through the hole and get a tight 0-ring feel without agony, you will have to scissor cut a little more off that finger. What I did was cut to nearly the end and stretch the rubber with my hands so I could get my member from the black side into the orange side. Much of the sensory-less portion of your member will be on the black side and all of your sensitive portion will be on the orange side. Too, the blood being held longer on the sensitive side, your member may be larger for the flight.
Put the FL, big end first, into the orange area where it meets your member. Push the fingers outside in because all the Lube ? would work its way to where it would not be recycled with every stroke. Done right, there should be no Lube ? drainage through the finger-cut entry location. Vibrators are an option.
Much has been made of hands free. I have not used my hands more than 3 times in 2 years. You have to be inventive yourself or buy something that causes motion. I have purchased what is called a Health Oyy-Twist Device. Chi may be the manufacturer but I bought it through a West Coast Canadian company. It is not cheap.
The proper way to use it is to lay on the floor and prop your ankles into the cushion notches. Once you start it up, your feet will sway back and forth like a swimming fish at the rates between 80 and 160 times per minute. The distance of the stroke is about 1.5 inches.
The more expensive model is better because it has two 15-minute routines that vary the speed and vibrations. You can go at a certain number of strokes anywhere between 80 and 160 without vibrations or carefully disengage the connection for the vibration and go variable speed without vibration. They may have newer designs by now.
And there is also a vibration only or added option with a constant speed of choice. Vibration levels vary as well. The only thing I don’t like is you can’t enter your own routines and experiment. The inside vibrator ? is EFFECTIVE though not super powerful, so you may want to add your own.
You can attach your FL arrangement to the cushion with Velcroe or Duct tape or some other means. You don’t want leakage into/under the cushion areas because that’s where the electronics are located and you don’t want to fuck directly with wild electricity.
If 1.5 inch stroke sounds tame, and it is not, and you want to try something else, get a small rocking chair. Prop the exerciser in the seat and secure it around the back. I use bungee cords because there is a decorative hole on the back where the neck would be. If you have spokes on the back it would give you more position options. You should be able to find a five inch stroke as the rocker rocks. You have to experiment to find various balances. Some chairs are smaller so the fit may be awkward. Too big might not be good because you will get your knee(s) crashed into.
The Chi exerciser can be adapted for those who wish to be penetrated. I can ensision it penetrating 8 females at the same time or 2 males.
Good luck.