Are Most People Shallow?

Personally, I’m almost exclusively attracted to slim women, who have to have at least one physically attractive feature. They certainly don’t have to be model/Barbie girl/porn star types (actually I prefer real women who are on this side of perfection).

Having said that, I really don’t care how nice/intelligent/humourous/caring they are, bottom line is-if they’re vastly overweight/underweight, I will NEVER entertain the possibility of a relationship beyond friendship with a woman like this.

I know what you’re thinking: they can always get into shape, and perhaps the beautiful sexy ? butterfly can emerge, but until it does, I’m just not interested sexually.

I dunno, there seems to be a fine line between high standards and snobbery, and in the end both seem to ensure that one goes to bed alone.

Obviously we all have different triggers which attract us….but it always seems to come across as shallow when we disqaulify someone based on their appearance. Is this being shallow, or just selective? Does everyone end up having to defend their position on this too?

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