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Recently I purchased the Riley Steele Lotus and was very excited for my first Fleshlight ? experience. I had heard many stories about it feeling even better and more intense than actual intercourse (the Lotus insert particularly has rave reviews) and some people not being able to last with it for more than a few minutes.

Well…my experience has been quite different.

Firstly I need to mention that I followed the recommended instructions precisely, including removing the bar in the middle (obviously!), letting it sit in warm water, using proper lubrication ?, etc.

To cut to the chase, my penis is not very sensitive to the Fleshlight ?!

I was erect and very much in the mood but upon insertion I basically found that I can go with it for more than an hour and be nowhere near to climaxing. My penis could barely feel it so needless to say I gave up, because it just wasn’t doing it for me. What’s even more frustrating is that when I inserted my fingers, it felt amazing to them, I only wish it could feel the same way down there. I experimented any way I could think of, including twisting the cap to every position, going from different angles and at different speeds, and removing the insert and using it from both orifices.

I am certain that something is wrong here, because nearly all other users to my knowledge have an intense experience and cum quickly.

However, a bit of background info ? is required before anyone can make an informed assessment of the issue.

My erection is vertical. Although the Fleshlight ? let me bend it to near horizontal, it was rather painful and I only really "feel it" when it stays vertical. Due to its large design, it’s a cumbersome process to use the Fleshlight ? with this limitation.

When I was around 9 years old (I’m 23 now), I discovered a unique method of masturbation ? with bed sheets (and also pillows). It involves laying down on my back under a bed sheet, turning the right side over itself once, then turning over onto my stomach to my left to make another layer, then humping it while pressing both hands under it against my groin to increase the pressure and make for a far more intense masturbation ? session than using my hand. I admit that I have never once in my life cummed from my hand alone, I’ve always had to use something else.

Because of my unorthodox self-pleasure invention, I am used to more rough stimulation. But keep in mind that sometimes I’m able to orgasm using a bed sheet in just a few minutes, and they are at times mind-blowing, so I at least know that I’m able to orgasm like a normal person, to the tune of thousands of them in my lifetime.

I’ve never masturbated with Lube ? before. I think the Lube ? (Astroglide) somehow makes me less sensitive despite the fact that it lets me maintain an erection more efficiently. I also noticed that even after showering multiple times after use (I tried 3 or 4 times in the first two days to no avail), my penis still has a dry rubber feel to it, which makes it all the less sensitive. Is this normal after using the Fleshlight ? for the first time?

Do I need to "re-sensitize" myself in order ? to feel the Fleshlight ? like most users do? Using it daily for an hour to get myself used to its smoothness, and not being able to feel much or orgasm even after all that effort doesn’t sound very fun to me.

Have any of you had similar problems? If so, how were they resolved?

Would the Lotus insert have anything to do with it? I was under the impression that it was supposed to provide the most realistic ? artificial vaginal intercourse sensation, but perhaps other textures could do something else. Either way I’m not buying more until I figure out how to ? make this one work.